Suzanne Berman, M.D.
Food
is important for your baby's healthy growth and development. This
information is designed to answer questions you may have about
feeding your baby.
Remember:
these are general guidelines. Every baby will progress at his or
her own rate. If you have questions about your infant's feeding
or nutrition, please let us know.
BIRTH TO 4 MONTHS:
During
the first 4-6 months, the only food your baby needs is breast
milk or iron-fortified formula. The baby doesn't need any extra
water, juice, rice cereal, baby foods or table foods until 4
months.
Although
many people used to advocate earlier feeding, we know now it's
not a good idea because:
- Babies grow and gain weight just fine on breast milk
or formula.
- Breast milk and formulas are complete nutrition in
themselves, and contain enough protein, fat, vitamins, and minerals for
babies.
- Babies fed solid foods this early (before their head
and neck muscles are coordinated) can choke and gag on the strange textures.
- Babies fed solid foods this early can develop
allergies and asthma.
- Babies who drink too much water or juice instead of
formula have trouble gaining weight, and can have a sodium imbalance in their
blood.
- Cow's milk is too concentrated for a baby's kidneys to
handle.
Rarely,
we will recommend using a small amount of water or juice for a
severely constipated baby, or thickening bottle feedings with
rice cereal for severe reflux (spitting up.) We'll tell you if
your baby needs these changes. Otherwise, just stick with formula
or breast milk until age 4 months.
Tips
on feeding a very young infant:
- Hold and talk to your baby during feeding. A pleasant
feeding time makes your baby feel happy and secure.
- To prevent baby bottle tooth decay and ear infections,
don't prop a bottle or put the baby to sleep with a bottle.
- There is no need to force a baby to finish a bottle. If
you are concerned your baby is not eating enough, let us
know.
4-6 MONTHS:
Babies
are ready to begin spoon feedings when they can:
- Sit with a little help and turn their heads.
- Open their mouths and lean forward.
- Lean back and turn their heads away.
- Accept a small amount off a spoon without thrusting out
their tongues.
Some
babies may be ready by 4 months and others need to wait until 6
months. Don't rush - your baby is the best guide. Nutritionally,
your baby's milk still provides his complete needs. Spoon
feedings are to practice developmental skills - and for fun.
Don't get stressed, keep feeding time calm, and enjoy this time
of discovery together.
Tips
for starting spoon feedings:
- Begin with baby rice cereal. Thin the cereal with
breast milk or formula. The consistency should be like Cream-of-Wheat. Do not
add sugar or honey.
- After your baby has tried cereal, offer mild-tasting
vegetables until 6 months of age. Carrots, peas, or squash are good choices to
start. You can use the "step 1" baby foods, or you can puree your own
vegetables at home.
- Start with just a little bit of food at a time, 1-2
teaspoons. Use a child-size spoon to feed.
- Remember: go slowly with new foods. Try one at a time.
Allow 3 days to pass before trying another new food.
- First foods should have only one ingredient; don't use
mixtures or "dinners." (If the baby is sensitive to one of the ingredients,
you won't know which one.)
- Be prepared for initial refusal of the new flavors and
textures. If your baby refuses food - stop feeding. Try another food and
re-introduce the refused food in another week or two.
- Do not add foods to the bottle. This confuses the baby
as to what taste and texture to expect from the bottle.
- Don't use infant feeders. These syringe-like gadgets
basically force-feed solids into infants. A normal baby
will never need this. Either he is too young to take food
from a spoon (and thus doesn't need the solids yet
anyway) or he can take some off a spoon, even if it
doesn't seem like ''enough." Please talk to us about
your concerns before resorting to this method.
How
do you know if your baby is food sensitive?
Severe
diarrhea or vomiting, a rash, or wheezing may be symptoms of
sensitivity to a specific food. On the other hand, they may just
be coincidence. If you think your baby reacts to a food, stop
feeding that food. Try it again in a few weeks. If the problem
continues, let us know.
Sample
meal plan: 5-6 month old infants
- Breakfast: 4-6 tablespoons baby cereal, 6-8 oz milk
feeding
- Mid-morning: 2-4 oz milk feeding
- Lunch: 2-4 tablespoons cooked strained vegetables, 6-8
oz milk feeding
- Mid-afternoon: 4-6 oz milk feeding
- Dinner: 2-4 tablespoons cooked strained vegetables, 6-8
oz milk feeding
6
MONTHS:
This
is a good time to add fruits. You can also offer a little juice in a sippy cup. Be sure to
continue offering cereal and vegetables.
- Introduce fruit after your baby tries a variety of
vegetables. (Babies who get fruits before vegetables tend to refuse the
less-sweet vegetables.) Again, use single ingredients first.
- At about the same time you start fruits, you can try
juice too. Offer juice in a sippy-cup rather than a bottle - again, a bottle
should contain only formula or breast milk. Juice in a bottle can lead to
tooth decay, so don't offer juice at bed time.
- At first, your baby will probably need lots of help with
the cup, but with some practice he will get the hang of
it. Cups have a faster flow than nipples, which require
active sucking.
7-8 MONTHS:
Now
is a good time to add meats. (If you are raising your child as a
vegetarian, we can suggest alternative sources of protein.) You
can use commercially prepared baby food meats, or you can make
your own as follows:
- Boil, bake, poach, stew, or braise meat until tender.
(Avoid frying.)
- Remove all fat, bone, and skin from meat after
cooking.
- Puree in blender until smooth, using cooking liquid,
breast milk, or formula.
- Other sources of protein include ricotta cheese, mashed
cottage cheese, and plain yogurt.
8-12 MONTHS:
When
your baby can sit alone without support, pick up little things
with the thumb and forefinger, and has a few teeth, you can start
to offer table foods:
- Offer your baby a spoon or give finger foods with more
texture like unsweetened dry cereals, toast, cooked grains, mashed vegetables,
soft fruit, ground or mashed meat, beans, and strips of cheese.
- Let your baby feed himself as soon as he is
interested. This is messier than you doing it, but it's important to allow the
child feeding independence for his development.
- Offer foods with different colors, textures, and
tastes. Offer food without added sugar or salt.
- Hot dogs, nuts, chips, raisins, popcorn, seeds, granola,
and hard vegetables (like raw carrots) can be dangerous
for babies and toddlers - they can cause choking.
Sample
meal plan: 8-12 month old infants
- Breakfast: 6-8 tablespoons baby cereal or cooked
iron-enriched adult cereal, 2 tablespoons soft fruit, 6-8 oz milk feeding
- Mid-morning: 2-4 oz unsweetened juice (in a cup) and
toast, 1/2 to 1 slice
- Lunch: 2-4 tablespoons soft vegetables, 1-3
tablespoons pureed or chopped meat or mashed beans, 6-8 oz milk feeding
- Mid-afternoon: 2-4 tablespoons soft fruit or toast,
2-4 oz water
- Dinner: 3-4 tablespoons soft yellow or green vegetable,
3-4 tablespoons soft vegetable or fruit
12-15 MONTHS:
After
the first year of life, growth slows down - and so does the
appetite of most children. Infants who were voracious eaters may
seem picky as toddlers. This is very normal, but not concerning
as long as toddlers eat balanced diets. Let us know if you are
concerned about your toddler's intake.
Tips
on feeding young toddlers:
- After your baby reaches 1 year of age and eats enough
food from all four food groups, your baby is ready for whole cow's milk from a
cup.
- Children who are younger than 2 years old should not
be given 2% or skim milk because lower-fat milk does not provide the calories
and essential fatty acids they need.
- Because your child may eat little at mealtime,
children need snacks to balance the diet. Offer three regular meals and 3
small nutritious snacks.
- Remember sweet foods or beverages like cookies,
candies, gelatin, soft drinks, fruit drinks, or oily salty foods like chips
need to be controlled. These foods add pleasure to a diet, but if offered too
often, they can decrease your infant's appetite for necessary foods.
- Juice is a good treat, but too much can be just like drinking too much soda: empty calories. Limit juice to 6 ounces a day.
- If your child is drinking from a cup now, great! If not,
it is time to encourage cup drinking. Children should be completely off the bottle by 15 months.
- Toddlers continue to thrive on some routine. Mealtimes
should be as calm and predictable as you can make them.
- Self-feeding is one of your toddler's first big steps
toward independence. It can be messy. Be patient and
encourage it. (You might want to cover your floor with
plastic or newspaper to make cleanup easier.)
15-24 MONTHS:
By
this time, toddlers should be eating smaller portions of whatever
everyone else is eating (except for potentially dangerous foods
like popcorn, peanuts, raisins, granola, etc - wait until age 4
to introduce these.)
Tips
for feeding older toddlers:
- Set a good example.Your toddler will usually eat the
same foods you do.
- It may seem like toddlers eat next to nothing, but
they do need much less food than adults (who tend to overeat anyway.) Easy
guide to minimum servings: 1/4 to 1/2 cup of any food.
- Encourage children to try at least one bite of a new
food. If the child rejects the food, reintroduce the food again later.
- Feed children before guests arrive. Children require
lots of attention at mealtime and it may be impossible to give it to them
while entertaining.
- Remember to offer your children water to drink. Toddlers
should not get more than 16 oz of milk and 8 oz of juice
daily. If they are truly thirsty, they will accept water.
If they refuse water and will only take juice or milk,
they want a "calorie fix."